how many meltdowns can i handle? i dont know what to do. last night my daughter autumn had a huge meltdown and i sent her to her room, well actually to be honest i had to take her to her room. she was screaming and crying to where she couldnt breath. so i took some toys away and put them away till she earns them back. this went on for about 45 mins. does anyone have any ideas on how to fix this problem before it even starts? it usually doesnt happen that often but lately it has been happing more and more and it stresses me out and it scares her baby sister when she sees it. :( HELP!